Surgery Days Two and Three

Friday night was a long night for our sweet girl.
She vomited her pedialyte so all feeds were stopped.
She yanked the tube coming from her button. 
Not once but twice.
She almost got her IV out too.

We thought some twin time was in order.
 Saturday we brought Sofia while my sister graciously kept the biggies.

Sofia was VERY concerned about her twin:
"Celia you look like a train wreck girl. 
Let's bedazzle you."
 Sweet Sofia made it HER JOB to cover Celia 
with as many stickers as her legs, arms and nightgown could hold.

 They watched movies together.
Sofia picked out some balloons for Celia.
And held warm compresses on her tummy.


And they shared a little...
 Twinny Love.


Precious doesn't begin to describe how Sofia was with her.

Celia even felt like taking a little walk around, so we got a little morale boast too.

So for the down and dirty;
She narrowly avoided another surgery as our Dr was concerned about the vomiting episode and gave her one more shot at keeping the Pedialyte down before taking her back to the O.R. to go through her intestines instead. She is medically fragile(a term we HATE) so she cannot go very long in allowing her tummy to not receive nutrition.
THANKFULLY, last night she tolerated that darn stuff, and today she started formula feeds.
So far, so good.
If she can handle them tonight as well, we are hopeful she can come home tomorrow.

She will come home off all oral feeds for awhile to allow her lungs time to heal.
The hope is, that she can return to oral feeds, but we don't have a guarantee.
We have to feed her 1 hour formula feeds SITTING UP (so she doesn't aspirate)
every 3 hours. 
With time to set up, clean up, return her to bed at night, etc...
Basically, we are never going to sleep ever again.
Ha!

We now have a lovely IV pole in our kitchen.
Yes we do.

Now we just need to get her home and figure all this out.

Do we feed her via tube before the family eats so she is full when she smells food?
Do we tube feed her as she watches us eat?
What is our "new normal" for our family now regarding food, snacks etc?
It seems a bit cruel to have her watch everyone eat, but on the other hand, we want her a part of the family at the dinner table...
Sigh.

We have lots of decisions to make, but for now we are praying she will come home tomorrow.

And a sweet story:
Gianna: "Mommy I almost burst out crying when I saw Celia. I want her home. I miss her."

Aria:"Well, I did cry. We aren't like puzzle pieces that are all broken up. 
We are a family and we need to be together."

I couldn't have said it better myself.



Comments

  1. I pray you come home tomorrow but if not, please call my cell as I am working tomorrow night (I assume you are at the same hospital as before)..Praying for you, her twinny, the rest of the siblings and the staff loving on her!

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  2. You are raising amazing girls. They are thinking of each other in such a caring, precious, Christ-honoring way. Amazing Mom and Dad they must have :)
    Praying for you all!
    deanna

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  3. Precious, precious girls! Wow, all of this just yanks at my heart. Even though your stories are so transparent, I can't begin to imagine what daily life is for you and your family. What is clear, however, is that God's grace is covering all of you. Thank you for taking your precious time to share with us so we all can pray more specifically for you. Sending you lots of love!

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  4. We are praying that this is "going home" day so that the beautiful family picture is back together again. When did Aria become such a mature young lady, with so much wisdom? Her puzzle pieces line sounded like more like an "old Chinese saying" than a precious 7 yr old. She has reminded us all that hearts linked by love are the most connected of all. Give each other a hug and a kiss, we will see you soon.

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  5. I'm so glad to read that Celia kept her pedialyte down. I imagine that the solutions the the decisions you are facing will involve a lot of trial and error. Perhaps Celia can let you know what she prefers after she's experimented a bit.

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  6. What a group of wise young ladies you are raising....I'm here if you need me. She might enjoy a lollipop (the safety stick kind) or something similar while eating. You'll find what works for you all, and that will be your new normal. Because, really, no two families are the same. There really is no "normal". Whatever God calls you to do, that is your 'normal'. Love you.

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  7. Praying for you and your sweet family. Such tough decisions you have to make. Amazed at your strength.

    You are my hero wearing the "big girl panties" 24/7 these days.

    Hope you get to bring her home soon!

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